awful

sometimes people can never really notice or realize that their actions are bringing troubles and problems to other people
whenever your friend seek help from you, as a good friend, none of us will be saying NO, especially those help are still within our own capability
and it will be wrong if you can help, but u had chosen to stay away from people who are in trouble
i always wondering...is that a necessary for a person to reject a friend directly to their face?i mean...when you were already showing that u are not able or feeling reluctant with their weird and funny request.
why cannot they just think of themselves at the same position whenever they are requesting something demanding or even OVER-demanding requests from people that is crossing the people's bottom line
what if i ever requesting the same thing from them
will they ever think of or even willing to help me?
i doubt it without second thoughts because...
who on earth will be saying yes to some ridiculous SOS that they are receiving from a friend for like a few times in a month?

i am sure that everybody has the "bottom line" in them
nobody can ever cross that line and ever make you do something that you are not happy with it.
of course there are some exceptions for Yes Man or Yes Woman.

the worst thing is
when you are rejecting their funny request
they might judge you as being selfish
what's wrong of wanting to protect one own self?
it was like you don't even have a choice to say No.
when you are requesting something, meaning u are sort of like seeking help
when you are trying to seek for help
please be bear in mind that people are helping you because they are generous and nice enough
but not because of they owe you something and they must fulfill whatever u have requested from them

for me
if this funny people who think people that rejected their request are selfish...
...they are totally PATHETIC
because they are the most selfish and self-centered people out of all